A Roadmap to You…
There are three pathways we can walk together in order to get you back to a more connected, happier and healthier life.
The decision is up to you.
Personal: You and your relationship with self.
Choosing you isn’t always the easiest path but it is the greatest place to start! Because here’s the thing… How you view, relate and feel about yourself may often times feel like a private event. But on the contrary, these very personal internal ways of being with yourself are translated in every action, every word, every thought you have to the outside world in every moment of every day.
Meaning... much of what is going on inside of your head is being driven by both conscious and unconscious fears, doubts, and judgments that are holding you back from living your life more fully and having the connections and prosperity you most desire. They are also creating barriers to today by tirelessly holding on to old wounds buried deep within. But the good news is… they are there for very good reasons. And together we can access them, clear them out and replace them with new ways of being, seeing and feeling about you and life.
Dedicate your time, bring your willingness and curiosity and I will meet you with 30 years of education, devotion and success(es). Together we will get you where you most want to be!
Partnership: You and your relationship with another.
You were born into the arms of another and it is that place of love, connection and support that your body is always wanting to move toward and maintain; naturally attempting to attune itself with another.
The body is like a heat seeking missile except its mission is not to destroy but create… Create pleasure, joy and more self expression. Unless, it has learned instead to fear the outside, fear another. Then its job is to push away, shut down or avoid. Setting you and others up for a perpetual dance of come and go. This is the path of the body trying to find equilibrium and connection. This is how your relationship style toward others is formed.
We all have our own relationship style that we operate from. Discover yours and how you are affecting those around you. Do you avoid communication/intimacy? Do you feel needy at times for more attention, acknowledgement or accolades? Do you feel scattered, uncertain, unclear about how you want to be and who you are in relation to others? Discover how to read yourself and others (from these styles) and live a more understanding, compassionate and exciting life… together!
You can do this work on your own or in the company of your partner. I work with couples who are not in crises (for this I will be happy to refer you to a specialist) but those who are looking to bring more harmony, clarity and direction to what they already have.
Purpose: You and your relationship with dedication.
Your life's purpose is about feeling good, centered and dedicated to doing something which brings you happiness. Notice how I did not say… dedicated to saving the world. That might be a small handful of peoples’ purpose but for most of us it is so much more simple than that. Instead it is about getting clear about what gives your specific life meaning and then dedicating yourself to being present and living it!
A few ways in which you can make a difference is through art, writing, teaching, gardening, developing software, fixing cars, bagging groceries at the market, selling stocks, etc. It actually does not matter what it is that you DO as long as you CHOOSE to BE TRUE TO YOU while doing it. Which means… Beginning to name, appreciate and value what truly brings you joy. Deciding to leave your judgments and comparisons at the door. Welcoming excitement and relaxation as you follow your hearts’ lead. Learning how to blend this into your daily busy life and showing others what it looks like and feels like to be filled with purpose. From there, I promise, your life will be lived from such a brighter, lighter, magnetic place and those around you will benefit and prosper right along side of you!
Another area of purpose and dedication, that is a PASSION of mine, is parenting. Being a clear, happy, devoted parent is the greatest gift you can give to your child(ren).
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